After testing the dredge in the evening, the guys who dock you in the street and the relationship with the office colleague that ended badly, you opted for the meeting on the Internet. Is it a good idea?
You will see that you are not the only one to have chosen this method of meeting, which, despite a negative reputation that sticks to the skin, offers vast possibilities.
Find out what you can find by visiting an online dating site, and what the tips for meeting on the Internet are.
10 tips to make a nice meeting on the Internet
Over time and my experience, I have been able to define some rules to follow to make a meeting on the Internet of quality. I deliver them here, in the form of 10 tips to follow!
Choose the right site
This is the first and most important step to start correctly. Choose a dating site that meets your expectations, how much time you have to spend on this Internet event, and where you feel good.
If from the first minutes, the interface or the profiles displayed do not please you, change!
Do not waste time
Create a profile that matches what you are looking for. This goes through a nickname and clear for your interlocutors (with hotgirl69, you know what to expect for example …) and write a description in which you specify your expectations. Be brief, concise, but not too evasive!
Otherwise, you could be contacted by a bunch of singles who do not match your criteria!
Even if you are the most delicate and educated person in the world, you will have to face the facts: you will not be able to answer everyone. Dating on the Internet involves sorting, which you will do by taking a quick look at the profile of your interlocutor. Please, desires meet with yours? Go for it! If on the other hand nothing attracts you, no need to answer.
Do not go too fast
The beauty of online dating is also part of the mystery at the start. Talk about yourself, question it but do not turn your discussions into questioning. It’s good to keep some secrets to unveil only when you are sure that the person could make a good companion.
Do not lie. The meeting on the Internet must be based on a relationship of mutual trust, and the slightest lie, once laid bare, would destroy everything. It’s the same if the person you are talking to is lying to you.
If at any point in the conversation, the money comes into the account, with someone who asks you for any financial help, run away. Never, I say never, you will have to give a penny to a person who is behind a screen, as beautiful and touching is its history. Believe me, some people know how to scam people…
Change ways conversations when you are sure
You got to know you? The man you are talking to likes and seems to be a good person? So do not hesitate to go through another channel of discussion, more intimate than a dating site. The phone is my favorite, to hear the voice of my interlocutor, but you can also create a specific email address for your meetings on the Internet.
A 1 st meeting in a public place
The time of 1 st appointment has come! It’s up to you to choose the place and the moment that you prefer (afternoon at the cafe, restaurants …) but I advise you 2 things: a public place (or you will not be all 2 of them) and to warn your entourage of this meeting (a friend, a loved one …). No paranoia, but basic precautions.
Meeting on the Internet … but not only!
The meeting on the Internet is rich in possibility, it is a fact. But do not lock yourself up! Keep going out, talking and chatting outside, because the virtual is only a small part of the meeting possibilities!
Talk it over!
Talking with other singles ways to meet a man on the internet is a nice way to learn more about the specifics of this type of meeting. Each will have an experience, an anecdote (sometimes funny, sometimes totally crazy!) That will make you move in the right direction.
It’s your turn! I wish you to make beautiful meetings online and elsewhere!